DS1 (4 1/2, autistic and hyperactive) hasn't dealt well with bedtimes since the clocks went forward. He has fairly heavy curtains, but can open them and, of course, can turn the light on in his room or on the landing, so keeping the room totally dark is impossible, but all the same I'm wondering if anyone knows of a source of blackout film we could put on his window just to make it a bit dimmer in there.
Of more concern is the fact that during his time of refusing to go to sleep, even if he's dog tired, he's discovered the joy of picking at the textured wallcovering in his room. He started with just picking the tops off the pattern and we were able to just roll our eyes and not make a Big Issue out of it because he has a strong oppositional streak that would make him do it every night if we did make a big deal of it. He's moved on to stripping big patches off, now and the plaster underneath is fairly soft and he's making holes in that. I've covered the worst patches around his bed with fablon, for now, but that will only last so long.
He's always been a big picker and I can't see him growing out of it anytime, soon. Even if he does, his younger brother looks to be on the spectrum, too, so we can't predict he won;t pick up the same habit. So, we need to do something more permanent.
We've had a few thoughts. The house is a cottagy style ex-miner's house and already has some pine panelling on the landing, so we could put that up. Alternatively, we could put up the plastic panelling that some people have in their bathrooms, but I think that would look out of place and might create long term problems with damp. Another idea I've had is to replace the anaglypta with lincrusta wallpaper like they have in pubs, but I'm not sure exactly how tough that would be and it is very expensive. If we went for bare painted plaster, we've have to get the surface skimmed, first and I'm not sure it would last very long, since the lounge wall is already full of holes.
Anyone else have a chronic picker and what have you done, if anything, to make your child's room a bit tougher?
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Tough wallcoverings? Blackout film?
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ouryve · 29/06/2008 14:42
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