Going to have another moan whilst the girls are quiet watching Barney!!
I am fed up of no body taking the girls off me for a bit. They are really good for other people and are no trouble.
My Mum will have them whenever I ask, but I am not really an asker and would love not to have to ask and some one offer. Also she is getting older and also works part time so I don't like to ask too much of her.
It's worse at the mo because it's School holidays. My older Sister doesn't work and cannot bring herself to say "go on have a break" as you will have read from my last post, she never has done.
I am close to my Sister, I don't know what it is. I could tell you load of things over the last three years. It is almost like she is jealous. Not of me having a sn child but I think of all the attention that comes with it and of course all the benefits.
I know that sounds really stupid but she doesn't see why we should get money, didn't comment when we got our disabled space outside. Just loads of things.
Also when we go anywhere its always my girls that get asked about, particularly Ellie and always how me and my Husband are.
Other people have suggested that it's jealousy, not just me!! It does seem to make sense.
But it is not my fault. I would give all the benefits back, the parking space and the attention if I were to have Ellie back as she should be. I'd give anything.
I don't understand, I have twins and one has sn, doesn't that make her think "I should give Ang a break"? I had her Daughter lots of times when she was younger.
She loves my girls and is really good with them.
Dh says its just selfishness.
I sat here crying before (Ellie has a cough and runny nose so all our plans are out of the window which is why I am having even more of a moan!!) thinking is it me.
I am sure that if one of my Sisters was in my position and I didn't work I would give her a break.
Oh well, another moan......tis the season to be jolly!!!!!!!!
Sorry and thanks for listening, unless you have fallen asleep!!
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anniebear · 21/12/2004 09:18
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