I am a regular who doesn't want RL people to know me. Anyway, I basically have a complicated situation and was hoping for tips/advice on how to deal with it.
My dss who are 5 and 4 have an 8yr old cousin who has been dx with mild autism and GDD. We all spend a lot of time together. Although all the boys play together this often deteriorates rapidly into fighting. Cousin can be spontaneously violent for no apparent reason and can use rude language, which we have all agreed to ignore.
I have disciplining strategies for my dss (mainly naughty step) but obviously can't impose this on cousin, whose parents don't really follow a strategy other than constantly saying don't do that and coming up with empty threats, or else going to an extreme reaction and smacking.
I realise that autism is a spectrum and every child will require a different strategy but I was hoping for some ideas as to how to help the children have a more peaceful relationship.
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difficultsituation · 22/02/2008 09:19
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