DD is 6 in year 1. Diagnosed ASD (with marked demand avoidance), ADHD, speech disorder, SPD, ?learning difficulties and ?language disorder.
She is really struggling where she is in mainstream but her 1-1 is truly lovely and she is very well cared for albeit she is not learning and she is essentially baby sat.
We have just had it agreed by the LA to consult with a PRB who want them roughly able to do 5050 mainstream/specialist. We aren't sure she can so we aren't sure they will agree they can meet need.
That leaves us with very limited options.
A) a MLD school who aren't keen/happy with PDA
B) a SEMH setting where should be one of 3 girls in the entire school and none in her class. She wouldn't cope with being the only girl, she is very set in her mind that she is a girl and what are girl things vs boy things.
C) a further SEMH setting with similar issue
D) the ASD school who won't touch PDA.
My ideal is the PRB as even though she would be the only girl in the PRB she would have girls in the mainstream section. It also provides academic learning for her. She is able to access academic learning.
If the PRB come back as a no I think the least worse option of the available schools would be the mainstream she is currently in with 1-1. Am I insane?
It is so difficult :(
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Mumofsend · 09/05/2021 20:30
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