Hi all,
To cut a long story short, ds has shown signs of cp for months. At 7 months we are now in the process of getting investigation under way, partly due to lockdown and partly due to the rubbish wait and see attitude of the NHS around cp. Anyway just wanted some help with how to cope emotionally because I am not. I've been referred to local mother and baby mental health team but nothing is helping. I keep ruminating on what caused this/ how bad it is/ what future will be. This coupled with the fact that ds literally never sleeps longer than an hour even at night means I am losing my mind and so sad to the point that I cannot cope at all. I just can't seem to confront the idea he is disabled and as a result spend hours trying to Google how he could still be normal, which I don't think is helpful to my mental recovery. I think I am suffering from trauma from the birth in addition to all this but the team around me don't seem to have any suggestions to help, to be honest I find all it does at the moment is upsets me further. Please if you have any positive cp stories let me know as ATM life is unbearable.
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TheBuffster · 08/10/2020 13:25
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