Hi. My son is 11 and has high functioning autism. He adores school so much and is doing fantasically well. In fact he wants to be at school all day every day because he says it is tthe only place where people like him. He is very popular with his peers and teachers and is a fantastic role model. Because he is respected and liked he has no reason to ever not do the right thing. So school for him is an absolute breeze. However socially anywhere else he is a nightmare he winds everyone up and everybody then snaps at him. He has no respect for any adults out of school and because of this he is hated because he is so rude. We are basically housebound at weekends or holidays because I have no idea who he is going to wind up and I can't risk it. He loves the reactions off adults when he misbehaves so he will be really naughty to get a reaction. He will listen to and respect me but anyone else out of school he will just purposely wind up. I don't really know why - he just says it is so funny watching them explode. He thinks everyone hates him (being autistic he is seen as wierd!!!) but at school everyone respects him for being him. I have heard of children who refuse to go to school but very rarerly hear of autistic children who want to stay at school the whole time. Any advice appreciated. Thank you
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