My almost 4 year old:
Has some sensory issues, won't wear certain clothes and hates certain noises
Doesn't have a great imagination - likes playing with play food for example but his ice cream is always the same flavour, he doesn't come up with his own ideas much
Very verbal from an early age, copies quite a few adult phrases verbatim eg "see you soon, have a good week"
Behind on gross motor skills - he has low muscle tone
Will play for long periods by himself especially with Lego. But will seek out attention and play from adults too.
Hates nursery - it's a very nurturing place and they are amazing there - and says he has no friends.
Doesn't want to see other children we know his age really, with one or two exceptions who sadly we only see very rarely. Says he doesn't like them. Wants to spend his time with me, mostly. Not interested in playdates with those we could see more regularly... So I've sort of given up recently, which may be a mistake. He really doesn't have friends. When we used to arrange them he seemed to play ok together, although often quite independent in his play.
Can be very shy and clingy and doesn't like big parties, conversely he can sometimes be a bit overfamiliar with children / adults he doesn't know eg will go and talk to random grown up in the vicinity
Struggles with transitions or new things and to let go of old e.g. we painted a room and he didn't like the change and took weeks to accept it
Had regular big tantrums where he can't calm himself down
Makes eye contact but sporadically
Ditto with responding to name. He hears but chooses not to respond.
Lashes out physically - hitting, biting, scratching
We had a home questionnaire assessment for him by HV about age 3 as his tantrums were so bad but he was on great form during assessment.
I thought he might be Highly Sensitive Person but now wonder if he may have some social communication issues too or be on AS.
I wondered if this resonated with anyone? Would really appreciate some thoughts.
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nanbread · 06/01/2020 12:29
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