I have an almost 5 year old daughter. She started talking at 9 months, was having conversations before she was 2 and has had an impressive vocabulary and use of grammar from a very early age. So there’s definitely no speech delay. However, since my son was born almost 2 years ago, I’ve been starting to wondering if some of the things my daughter does / doesn’t do are ‘typical’
The first major concern is she will not give up her dummy, she has her dummy at bedtime. It causes so many arguments if we say no or take it away, she gets so upset. My husband says to just take it away but to me it’s her comfort? When she has her dummy in, she puts a little piece of her hair between the dummy and her mouth. She’s always done it, since a very young age. She says it’s ‘comfy’ for her.
When we go to the park she will literally play on the spinning pole (no idea what it’s called) the whole time. Same goes for soft play, she finds the spinning toy and will stay there for pretty much the whole time we’re there. (She doesn’t spin in circles on foot although she did used to!)
She’s very rough, almost seems tl throw herself around. Yesterday she threw herself on me and actually hurt me. She grabs people by their neck, especially her little brother. Even tho everyday for the last 2 years we’ve told her not to. I’ve seen her all over friends at pre school it’s like she has no boundaries.
When it comes to play at home, she doesn’t really. Our son is almost 2 and plays happily a lot of the time, which has made it stand out that our daughter can’t seem to play. One thing she does do, she likes to ‘build a world’ whether it be from blocks or household objects she
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mulderitsme · 19/08/2019 08:08
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