DD is nearly 9 and has a dx of ADHD. She's not really naughty, she has a temper but that's not the main issue - the thing I'm really struggling with is her complete inability to stay on any task whatsoever (apart from reading or screen time).
It's worse in the holidays - I just mean getting dressed, brushing teeth, finishing breakfast and clearing away her things etc, I'm not even attempting much homework because just day to day tasks take so much time and me standing over her keeping her going. I've written a list of things she (and DD2, and I - so it's fair) has to do before being allowed screen time, but I'm so sick of having to repeat each one ten or more times a day and even then it taking an age.
Its slightly better on medication (Equasym) but I'm loathe to give her it all through the holidays as she is already on the small side.
I'm going insane dragging her through life like this. This morning I lost my shit and shut myself in my room (trying to get her ready to leave the house for a treat FOR HER)
I know how horrible and unsympathetic i sound and that it isn't her fault. Is there anything I can do to make it easier or just I just need to try and learn to be a more patient parent?
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christmastreewithhairyfairy · 06/08/2019 10:24
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