Ok so I'm pregnant so everything is worse atm but I'm struggling so much with how to feel about my son.
He's 10, has Asperger's. He's always been negative, argumentative, quite moody and miserable but has got even worse lately. He's rude and gives me attitude. He HATES washing and will give me so much shit before he actually does it but he stinks of sweat.
He says he has no friends at school (we've been in this area for just over a year) yet his teacher days different.
All he does is stay in his room, playing games and watching TV. I try to control screen time but he'll find ways of sneaking the games back. He'll get up at 3am and try to go on things and then is knackered and horrible after school. He's broken my laptop and he's broken TV remotes.
He has some chores/responsibilities which he was getting quite good with as he loves his routines but I've just found out that for the past two days he's lied about feeding the guinea pigs. So angry.
Yet his "dad" who has only been in his life for two years picks him up once a week, for one hour, takes him to McDonald's and then the shop to buy sweets and/or a fizzy drink, gives him a fiver, and he's fiercely protective of him. I can't fucking compete with that :(
Sorry if this is a ramble. Don't really know what I want people to say. I just wish he wasn't here sometimes. I dread coming home to him as it's like having an abusive partner in the house :(
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BirthdayKake · 06/04/2019 12:24
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