Some of you may remember my previous post about my childminder - we are still no closer to any support or diagnosis of asd or adhd, no doctor I speak to will refer again until hes older and school although seeing the issues say he still might grow out of everything🙄
I'm just a bit upset today. My son's reception year is split into 2 classes - let's call them 1 and 2. My younger brother is in class 1. My son is in class 2. Aside from classroom teaching the two classes are together for everything, PE, reading, shared area messy play, lunch, playtime, assemblies. They are all friends with each other. My brother was invited to a joint party of 2 girls in class 1 that is happening tonight. My son was not. Fair enough, maybe only class 1 was invited. Today the whole class was talking about how excited they are about the party, so I thought maybe I had missed the invite. Nope. My son is the only one from both classes not invited, because he is 'too naughty and will ruin it' according to one of the children. Though he isn't close with either of the girls whose party it is (and I know they can invite who they like) and he doesn't really care, it's just a bit of a kick in the teeth for me, I feel awful. A few weeks ago, his 2 best friends who he always talks about both had their birthday parties and he wasn't invited. I was shocked because both of these boys are always looking for and playing with my son at school, their parents tell me how much they talk about him and one even got their mum to buy the same halloween costume as my son because he thought my son looked cool and wanted to match. So I don't think its the children. I just feel bad for my son. He's always ruled as naughty, and I know I can't expect 4 year olds to understand any differently but it's hard knowing he isn't wanted there.
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Just wanted to have a quick vent - my son is always left out!
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MummytoCSJH · 21/01/2019 16:06
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