I have DS 7, asd diagnosed when he was 5. I want go into great detail but looking back his issues were obvious. Lack of eye contact, struggling with noises, crowds even as a little baby. He was non verbal and lacked understanding until 5 and still at 7 has no sense of danger and has some pretty extreme obsessions.
Anyway, I split with his dad when I was pregnant but he has been in his life but he’s never been around him for long periods of time (only a few hours, occasionally overnight).
My ex and his family do not believe he has autism. I think this stems from his Nanna. She isn’t old, only in her 50s but she’s extremely old fashioned in her view that autism doesn’t exist and I also think she has made my ex believe this also. So I get paranoid that they think it’s my parenting (I know it’s not) but they tell other friends and relatives I exaggerate it etc.
If they knew anything about autism and getting diagnosed with it, they would know it can take months of years (it took us from age 2 until 5 to get diagnosed).
I have tried educating them but they refuse to talk about it.
Really disheartening when myself and my Oh (been together 6-7 years) do all the hard work every single day and they just speak nastily about us behind our back. It’s hard, we aren’t perfect, but we ty our damn best at bringing him up with little support.
How do others deal with this?
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JKCR2017 · 14/01/2019 12:18
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