Sorry for the epically long post but I don't want to drip feed.
Are there any parents her whose child was assessed later on in childhood?
My son is 10. He had slightly delayed speech when little, but met all other milestones. No concerns re asd raised at school, but I privately had him diagnosed with dyslexia and dysgraphia last summer. He needs lots of extra help at school, academically. (Has a "my support plan just implemented in the summer at my insistence) He has numerous vocal and physical tics. He doesn't have any bad behaviour, but is prone to meltdowns. He gets overwhelmed a lot, doesn't like change and is very sensitive. Doesn't understand sarcasm and is very literal. Finds maintaining relationships difficult at times - gets hurt/upset by things that wouldn't normally bother someone. Will not sleep in his own bed.
This past year has been very difficult. He's stopped playing out, wants to be at home in bed, doesn't want to go to school, says he has tummy ache etc. He has brittle asthma too so that hasn't helped.
Yesterday he had a massive meltdown about going to school, it was awful. Worst yet. We were due at the hospital that afternoon and George thought he was having the whole day off, and so when I took him to school he broke down. It's kind of brought things to a head with me.
My dilemma is - are there elements of asd that warrant an assessment or is it anxiety/emotional type problems? He has been in and out of hospital since 10 months old with his chest, I have heart failure, our nana died 2 years ago which he is only beginning to process, etc etc so he has a lot on his little shoulders. I'm a single parent too so that obviously impacts everything.
Grateful for anyone's thoughts/advice/experiences.
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Clairaloulou · 10/01/2019 13:36
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