Hi
I am new to mumsnet and chatting on the web so please bare with me if I don't use the correct terminology etc!! I have just finished reading the various threads by you all aboutyour kids and ASD and wondered if anyone could help me.
After months of blaming myself for my sons 'unreasonable' behaviour (HVs less than kind words), violent moods, self harming, his unhappy face and unloving nature, 18 months ago my eldest son was given a diagnosis of ASD. Unfortunately we had to move homes weeks later due to husbands job(hes in the army). I decided to give up my job as the shifts I worked were not helping and read every book I could get from NAS to help me understand better.
As soon as we moved to Northern Ireland I asked our Dr to refer us to the relevant childrens centre for help/advise/support etc.I am still waiting to be seen by anyone despite the Dr and my health visitor chasing up the referal. At the moment we just muddle through trying to cope with the violent outbursts and avoid supermarkets/shopping trips etc(after a very traumatic visit to Tescos one Sat afternoon)
We are now due to move again to N. Yorkshire next month and wanted to know how long should I expect to wait for a new referal? What help should I be asking for? Does anyone have any lifesaving handy hint that might help us cope or get us the support that we need?
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MissPitstop · 22/05/2007 19:52
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