Im a Mum of 2, and full time carer to my son who is 3 and who has a diagnosis of ASD. I feel like Ive hit rock bottom. He also has a 1 year old sibling.
He is non stop from the moment he wakes til the moment he goes to bed. I feel sick with anxiety around him to the point that I dry gag & go dizzy...I hate to admit that I dread spending time with him :( I long to have fun family time together, but it is just full of tantrums and meltdowns. He constantly whinges, whines, shouts, throws things, hits people, doesnt follow instructions and never seems to have fun ever :( he has limited speech, and when he does speak he just shouts words aggressively at me when he wants something. I have nothing left in the tank for his little sister, and I feel guilty that she is often overlooked. I know its not his fault, and I feel like a monster for feeling the way I do. I just want to enjoy my son and enjoy parenting the way that everyone else seems to (I know thats a ridiculously sweeping statement!!!). What broke me today was walking to nursery (always a fight) and he wouldnt hold my hand properly crossing the road and broke free from me and almost ended up in the road :( :(. The looks people gave me, like I was a piece of dirt on the floor.. I got home and just cried. I feel like I hate my life...that theres no fun and never will be. Nursery tell me everyday how he trashes the place and doesnt listen. My heart breaks for HIM every single day, and I think I just feel like a failure as I cant help him. I am on edge constantly, and find myself snapping at the kids all the time. I feel like I cant take anymore. I dont know what to do. Does anyone feel the same?? Please dont judge me, I feel awful enough x
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At rock bottom with autistic son :(
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specialneedsmumoftwo · 06/03/2018 16:41
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