Please help me. After a fraught day out today I have finally given in to suspicions that my DS (26m) is not 'normal', that it is becoming less and less likely that he will become 'normal'. Going through a questionnaire thing we found, DH & I would say these are among typical traits for DS:
Does not respond to his name
Cannot tell me what he wants
Language is delayed
Doesn't follow directions
Appears deaf at times
Seems to hear sometimes but not at others
Doesn't point or wave goodbye (Starting to though)
Seems to prefer playing alone
Gets thigns for himself
Is very independent
Has poor eye contact
Is in his own world
Tunes us out
Is not interested in other children
There's a real lack of empathy - I've always said that people are just furniture to him, you're either in his way or you're not.
No babbling by 12m
No pointing/waving by 12m
No single words by 16m (I lied on his 18m check up)
No 2word phrases by 24m
Behaviourwise he can be unco-operative but doesn't really tantrum, just lies down and goes floppy. Walks on his toes but isn't hugely clumsy, just breaks things on purpose to see what they're made of I guess.
So where do I start? Do I get an HV round or do I go straight to GP? What happens if they agree there's something wrong? I don't know whether to feel hopeful or scared or what, at the moment I'm just sad because I'm finding him so hard to cope with. If they say he's normal, what kind of parent does that make me?
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Bucketsofdynomite · 29/04/2007 14:57
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