dd is 13 months old - she was born at 35 weeks by emergency section and almost didn't make it - she had stopped moving and I took myself to my local hopsital - was blue-lighted to another hospital with instructions to deliver her but they monitored me for another 8 hours before doing the section and I've since been told we are lucky that she didn't die. Anyway, at 13 months she is sitting up but not always well but that's it - she also shows weakness in one arm - keeps her thumb tucked in and can't reach well. She also keeps toes curled up a lot - like a foot in a fist. We saw a community paed who said it could be nerve damage in her arm from the delivery or could be cerebral palsy or both. We are now waiting for our hospital assessment to find out more. I just can't bear not knowing - I keep finding myself looking for info on the net and trying to 'diagnose' myself. I also think about whenever i'm with dd too, can't just play on the floor am thinking 'what arm is she using? are her legs stiff? why isn't she sitting well today?' - I've also heard that CP is difficult to diagnose so if she does have it we may not get a diagnosis at this stage anyway. I just wish I knew what to expect - at the moment walking, even crawling seems a world away but I'm finding it hard to look after her as she gets so upset and frustrated that she can't do things. sorry this is whingey - i just feel a bit overwhelmed by everything at the moment.
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Jenkeywoo · 23/04/2007 14:28
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