Hi everyone. I've not posted before but could do with some advice with regards to managing the school run. My dd(5) has autism and goes to mainstream primary, she's in year 1. We coped, just about through year r but as she gets older, stronger/ faster I'm finding it harder to keep her safe when were out and about. The morning school run is fine. We park a couple of streets away, where it's quiet for loading/ unloading and then she cycles whilst I push her sister(3) in the the buggy. This works fine. She will stop when she needs to, goes in with no issue etc. The problem comes after school when she's exhausted. She's on the brink if a meltdown most days. I realise she is completely overloaded which is something we need to address with the school. She will race off ahead on her bike. I usually try to keep up with her but it's hard as it's crowded, lots of prams, dogs etc. If I stop her she will start hitting, screaming or just lie down on the pavement whilst everyone tries to walk around us, which I don't think us ok either. There's building work at the school which means it's extra noisy, busy as only one small gate. We had a couple of incidents last week when she cycled ran into the road, once in front of a car which luckily saw her in time.
How do you manage this time of the day? Do school do anything to help? Should I be asking to pick her up early before the crowds? Or slightly later, when my eldest daughter(15) is able to help with the youngest? I'm just exhausted trying to keep her safe. And her sister who frequently gets left in her buggy whilst I run after dd. Plus I hate that her peers see her struggling so much when she's managed to get through the day. Thanks for reading.
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millyk · 26/11/2017 12:36
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