Not sure what I am looking for, but guess I just need a rant to get this off my chest... So it was DS1's Diagnosis review today. He was given a working diagnosis of autism when he was 4, even though a SALT first brought it up when he was 2 yrs 3 months old. He is now almost 6.
DH and I weren't bothered about chasing the full diagnosis as we know it changes nothing, but his school have been pushing us to follow up as the review was meant to be last year.
Anyway, I met the psychologist (for the first time) this morning. She asked me some open questions such as "what are your concerns".. I answered as best I could, starting to explain the difficulties he has. She then said that based on the reports from 2 years ago she believes there is confusion over whether DS1 actually has ASD (as he does have a vivid imagination, has made great progress in a lot of areas , and she noted he made eye contact with her)... I then asked what about his sensory issues, communication issues, behavioural issues, social issues, PDA traits... etc... she then followed up with "You seem fixated on your son being given an autism 'label'.. You are even using all the autism terminology like 'PDA'".... This was 5 minutes after we met..
I was so surprised I just stammered something nonsensical, which she talked over anyway... but now I am really hacked off.. I use autism terminology as I have spent 4 years researching it, reading every book I can, etc in order to help him. I'm not "fixated on him having a label" .. I was only there because the school wanted me to be!! Whether they give him a full/working or no diagnosis doesn't change our day to day life!! Why didn't I say this at the time!?!? Well I guess as DS1 was outside in the corridor (he refused to come in the office) on the iPad and I knew any second he would jump up and do a runner... which he did... so I was a bit distracted!
Oh, she also said she had been researching other conditions that he might have instead of autism... again based on reports from 2 years ago.. before she even met us.. The whole thing seems a joke.. She is setting up another meeting in 2 weeks as we had to cut it short when DS legged it, so I know I will need to say a few words about what she said!!
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PunkyBubba · 03/08/2017 20:48
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