I'm in two minds about parties. Beforehand is a nightmare. She wants to go but is so worked up and this morning has been just awful for all of us. Everything sets her off, it's basically her way or the highway and she's v v aggressive and struggles with tactile sensory sensitivities with clothes and hair etc. I've been bitten, scratched, hit and pushed this morning. How do u deal with that?
She is anxious but does want to go usually -
Occasionally not! Sometimes I feel
Like no longer doing parties, but speech and language therapist also states that preventing her from doing things like this is going to reinforce her anxiety.
Obv don't force her though. It's just all so bloody traumatic!
She doesn't get invited to many parties it seems at the moment so shame to miss out.
It's a loud bowling party so I imagine she'll be stressed afterwards...
H and I are starting to feel so down and are trying our best. I think we're all exhausted.
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Blossom4538 · 27/05/2017 12:31
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