ds2 is 18 . He has HF aspergers .
Hes been chatting to a girl , face timing for a while . We live in Manchester , she is in Hull .
I need to stop him going off to Hull by himself .
He has been on the train to meet her half way in Leeds twice now , on his own , which was ok as far as i know .
But , he is really obsessed and fixated on her . I think she realises he is full on but is enjoying the flattery and attention . He is very controlling with her . Telling her ,to tell him, how much she likes him etc ( shes 16)
Now he wants to go to Hull . I told him that perhaps we could drive him but wasn't sure when , that wasn't good enough and he kicked off into a massive meltdown last night .
He is now adamant that tomorrow he is going on the train to Hull and staying in a hotel . I really really don't want this to happen . He is mentally younger than 18 . He has medication for epilepsy that he cant remember to take and he sleepwalks big time . That's just two things which bother me .
Basically he has turned 18 and hes taking advantage of the fact that he can now legally do what he wants but he sits around all the time while we do everything and pay for everything and he disrespects us , has violent meltdowns and goes mad if he cant get what he wants .
I need to stop him getting on that train .
Is there any way i can ?
I can't sit back while allowing something possibly to happen to him in Hull !
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