I have a longer thread on here about DD(8)'s issues - very strongly suspect she has ASD but is high functioning.
DD really struggles with friendships and relationships within our family. I know she's very lonely. She adores animals and is desperate for a dog. We have cats but they are particularly attached to me and aloof with everyone else so DD doesn't really get any companionship from them.
Now both DDs are a little older, I'm seriously considering getting a dog. DP, whilst initially in favour, feels that DDs issues are too severe right now for us to consider it and we need to focus on getting her help. I think that her having a dog (with our supervision and support obviously) might make a meaningful impact on DD and that we might never do it if we were waiting for the perfect time. She does melt down quite a lot though so I'm wary that this might upset a dog and we'd obviously have to be very careful about getting the right one for us. Another part of me thinks life is totally crap a lot of the time so it might be quite nice to have a dog and go on walks, get involved in dog training and making friends in the local dog community (there are regular meet ups locally). It's selfish, I know, but part of me just wants to do something for me for a change. Having said that, I want to be responsible abd make the right decision for all of us including a potential dog.
Has anyone got experience of getting a dog if their DC has ASD? What was your experience like and is there anything I need to think about in addition to the usual dog ownership considerations? Has it helped your DC (or you) in any way?
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Has anyone got experience of adding a dog to the family if your DC has ASD?
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DepthsUnknown · 16/04/2017 11:53
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