DTS1 (ASD / ADHD) currently in YR4. He will meet the YR4 academic targets. Around 2 years ago we decided to try medication and this has helped him with impulse control and concentration (to a degree) so he now only has the school funded hours of support.
He is constantly "getting told off" for... talking/interrupting/shouting out/not waiting his turn/ wandering off... etc etc. He has a very short fuse and frustrations can lead him to lose his temper very quickly and although we have (thankfully, after much hard work at home) moved away from the physical aggression, the verbal aggression is still a constant, and I can see the older he gets the physical outbursts could quite easily return.
Although the school is good, I can tell from what they write in his communication book that they believe he's just not trying hard enough to control himself. If it helps to add some context here, he has a NT twin brother, who is often used as an example of an exemplary pupil by CT's and Head! This helps in that they can't pull bad parenting card with me, but doesn't help DTS1 with his self esteem when in school.
His self esteem is at rock bottom and he is constantly retreating into his ipad to get away from the world! Socially he is very behind and although he has friends, his interactions with them are very awkward at best. He is very immature compared to his peers and I can see him being a prime subject for bullying once in secondary school.
I've always been told that he would never get a statement/EHCP because he is not behind academically so I've never bothered to even apply.
Does anyone have a similar child and have managed to get an EHCP?
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Bookeatingboy · 24/03/2017 14:54
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