My DS is 2.5 and doesn't speak (except 'ready steady go') up until a month ago I wasn't worried. He was a very easy going baby, good eater, good sleeper. A month ago we went on holiday to a family hotel and he struggled, he was anxious all week. I started reading about speech delay and it dawned on me that maybe he could be on the spectrum... he doesnt point or wave, loves to follow lines on the floor, likes routine, communicates by leading me by the hand to what he wants, he does have some physical 'tics' when he is excited, he also looks at things from odd angles when he's engrossed (toys, bubbles etc) he is also VERY anxious to be left with anyone ne me or DH, will scream even if I just go upstairs and leave him downstairs with gma (fine if gma isn't there!?)
So I read up on autism and then found loads of things that don't fit. He doesn't have big sensory problems, least fussy eater ever, generally relaxed out and about, like routine but easily distracted if something upsets him. Very interactive with us and his sister, very coordinated with football/stairs etc... no problem with eye contact.... , will now point to things (after a lot of work) and is happy to sit still reading with mummy or is the car, he's certainly hit the solitary, stressed kid I'm reading about in the books.
It's just such a wide spectrum, and so many things a 2.5yo does normally fit on to it. I'm so confused.
I've got myself into an anxious wreck worrying over this, which is so unlike me. I'm normally very pragmatic and reasoned and confident in my parenting. (Yes I'm one of those awful smug bitches with easy kids- or at least I was)
He is going through a difficult phase with a lot of screeching, and his sleep is suddenly more disturbed. I can't keep any of this in perspective anymore.... his screeches are like knives in my heart and even when he sleeps Fine I worry about him waking.
I looked back in my baby book and he went through a simlar difficult phase just before he started crawling (NO interest in moving until about a year, then was crawling to walking a few weeks). So maybe it's just the frustration before he talks.... (she thinks hopefully.)
We are starting the assessment process for autism this week and for now are concentrating on Speech and language therapy, which is expensive and time consuming (we live in france and I have to drive into Paris for the apts so it's 4 hrs of my day twice a week)
A month ago I was a happy relaxed proud easy going Mum, now I'm so anxious and stressed. I want to help my son.... but I feel out of my depth here.... help!
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readyornot2011 · 06/03/2017 11:22
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