Hi. My LO (aged 3 1/2 years) has global developmental delay. I have just submitted a DLA claim. However, I am now very worried that I have not completed the form very well. I do not think I have made it clear enough how my LO's care needs are greater than those of a child a similar age. I was wondering if it might be a good idea to send off a letter to go with the claim? Also I would really appreciate some idea/some examples of how I am supposed to fill the form in. I have looked at the DLA booklet and the Cerebra and Contact the Family Guides. However, I think I should have been much cleared about my answers - e.g. I wrote about him waking at 4am in the morning and how I then have to get up with him to supervise him as he will put small objects in his mouth, play with electrical leads and climb unsafely. And how it can take at least an hour to get him settled again. I am worried they will just see this as normal for a 3 year old. But with my eldest - I didn't have to do this. If he woke, I might need to reassure him. Also, once resettled I didn't have to sit with him as he did not do things that made me fear for his safety.
I am wondering now, if I should have expanded my answer more e.g. written how we don't get up until 6am so 4am is at night. Also, how I cannot leave him until he is actually asleep. How he is in my room to ensure I wake when he does because of my concerns about his safety. Plus, how I have woken to find he has climbed up onto the windowsill ... and is stood up there. As he has poor co-ordination/spatial awareness, I am especially concerned about him falling.
Any advice at all would be so much appreciated. I keep reading about how people have been turned down for DLA even though their child's needs seem extremely high.
Thank you!
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MariamaMay · 24/02/2017 00:32
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