Wouldn't mind your comments on our dilemma. Our ds attends a lovely sn school which he loves. We have the funding for him to stay 2 nights per week in their residential unit which is very homely. When he stayed for tea once he was very happy and excited, although he knew he was going home after tea. He has also stayed 2 nights in the summer holidays for summer camp at the school and was absolutely fine.
But when we talk about staying over, he gets worried. Also every day when arriving at school, he looks at his escort and signs "home". she reassures him that she will take him home after school.
Do we take the plunge and let him stay at school Wednesday - Friday? Do we see if he gets used to it, with the thought that his fear is worse than the reality of staying? Or do we leave it until next year?
He is nearly 8 yo by the way.
Our reasons for thinking residential placement would be good is that he would make better friendships, and become a little more independent. Also the ususal things llike learning life skills, dressing, extra classes in mobility etc etc. But mainly friendships. At home he has no friends, only family.
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twoisplenty · 23/02/2007 08:45
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