Ds is 11, has ASD/PDA. He's had a rough time in school (no support as he masks) and has school refused for a week and a half, is now in for an hour a day with me to try to help him feel more comfortable. He's just about going in, but is very anxious/angry. Any emotion at all at the moment is making him angry.
Sensory things (deep pressure, chewing, certain movements) help to calm him, but unless he chooses to do it he refuses.
He's needing to be supervised all the time so he doesn't hurt his little brother, he's swearing almost constantly, and saying he wants to die an awful lot.
We're very worried about him but not sure what to do.
CAMHS were beyond useless, they don't believe in PDA and they don't understand masking at all - because he seems fine to them, he's obviously fine everywhere and the issue is parenting (it's not).
Dh and I are beyond being able to come up with inventive strategies at the moment, and our senses of humour have abandoned us, if anyone has any novel ideas that might help ds please let me know
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DS is so angry all the time, I'm not sure how to help him.
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CloudPerson · 11/12/2016 22:53
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