Hello, I'm really struggling at the moment. My DS is 12. He has a diagnosis of ASD, apparently high functioning. He's in ms school and has 20 hrs support a week at school.
He finds change very hard and I am doing my best to help him. He spent seven years at a primary school where he was bullied. We moved with DHs job and he moved school. The last year of primary was fantastic.
He just started secondary school and is finding the chance hard which I had anticipated. He is also going through puberty now. He hates the changes to his body and is upset by them. I've tried to reassure him that it's a good thing. I've taken him to the GP because of his anxiety who tried to reassure him as well. It seems as if he really doesn't want to grow up. I've told him that Santa isn't real, neither is the tooth fairy. But he can't cope with it and says 'I understand but can we just pretend it's real?'
I don't know what to do to help him. He's a bright boy and the school he's at has good pastoral record. That said they're putting pressure on him to walk by himself to school ( up until now been dropping him off in the car as its on my way to taking DD to school) I've tried o get him to walk for the last two days but he can't cope with and has had a meltdown. I just don't know what to do.
Relevant or not, I don't know but I have depression also which clouds my judgement. I know this. I'm on medication and it was very bad about four years ago. I have absolutely no support at all. DH works long hours and my mum died years ago. I really struggling.
Here are some suggested organisations that offer expert advice on special needs.
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ASD and puberty
Pinkballoongirl · 04/10/2016 15:02
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