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Top tips of all kinds requested! Son with ADHD about to start MS secondary - aargh!

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Cushun Fri 26-Aug-16 12:24:22

DS1 has just turned 11, and has ADHD and dyslexia, so a triple whammy of immaturity, disorganisation and inattention. Plus hyperactivity and impulsivity of course smile.

We are meeting with the SENCO a week before he starts (next week- eek!), so will talk things over with her then, and expect there will be allowances made for him at school about forgetting equipment, poor presentation etc.

However, what practical things can we do at home to make things as easy on him and us as possible?

We already supervise him packing school bag the night before. He has a desk where all school- related things go and where he sits to do homework (which is a huge struggle for both of us).

So, any other ideas, relating to any aspects of school/teenage life?
Thank you in advance smile

PolterGoose Fri 26-Aug-16 21:03:28

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EwanWhosearmy Sat 27-Aug-16 10:58:28

expect there will be allowances made for him at school about forgetting equipment, poor presentation etc.

Sadly, IME, there is no allowance ever made. I got sick of reports every year that DS was disorganised and forgetful angry.

Can't suggest anything that you aren't already doing. Just be prepared for the fact that they have so many different teachers at secondary that some don't seem to get the memo that your child has ADHD and will not present like the 29 other kids in the class.

PolterGoose Sat 27-Aug-16 12:12:27

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Pootrouble Sat 27-Aug-16 14:47:48

Dd has adhd and started high school last year. Some allowances were made but only after repeated talking to her teachers by her mentor. Still at parents evening the teachers commented that she was disorganised and 'flighty' etc. There's a homework club after school every night so I get her to do as much hw as she can there. She's also heavily involved in as many sports as possible so that helps with her confidence and keeps a lid on some of her hyperactivity. Label everything!!!!! Dd has lost lots of things. She has just started a medication trial which I'm just about to post about.....

PolterGoose Sat 27-Aug-16 16:00:22

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Cushun Sun 28-Aug-16 17:37:16

Excellent, thanks all.

Polter I appreciate your suggestion regarding language especially. DS will apparently have a learning mentor, but doesn't need an LSA, so his needs won't be obvious in that way.

Ewan and Poo - this is one of my main concerns - that DS will always be getting told off for forgetting stuff/being disorganised, when he does really try his best.

I'm hoping DS will join clubs, and will label everything I can.

What do you think of a really quick email to his teachers once we know his timetable, just to say that DS has some additional needs, and I am happy to answer any questions they have? Too much?

Thanks again.

Pootrouble Tue 30-Aug-16 14:12:23

Yes I would email his teachers, just explain very briefly (I'd do a one liner) about his needs and then say if they have any issues to contact you. That should then show that you are open to communication

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