DD has complex MH difficulties, ASD and ADHD. She's always had issues around food - not really sensory issues around taste and texture but with the social aspects of eating and control of food, mealtimes etc. We've been seeing a specialist dietician, who has suggested we trial giving DD complete control over her food and allowing her to eat separately.
It's just been a couple of days and it seems to be going well for DD but I hate it. I grew up with family meals around the table, and this is how we used to eat (with increasing difficult to manage behaviour from DD). We're now having family meals with our other DC, while DD is busy reading and then she eats later.
I feel so torn. I think she's happier like this, and it certainly makes a much pleasanter meal for everyone else. But I feel like we're excluding her (although of course she could come and join us if she wanted to) and that she's not part of the family any more.
If it's helping DD, why can't I be happy about it?
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Please help me work through this, I think it's my problem, not DD's
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Melawati · 17/08/2016 18:23
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