Dd 2 has asd dx. dd1 and ds2 are going through the dx process. Been today with dd1 and would like some advice/thoughts please.
Dd1 is now 17. In a nutshell, we've been told today that dd has many autistic traits but not enough for dx ... but they feel if she'd been through the system when she was younger (7 or 8 was said) then they feel outcome would have been different and she'd have been given a dx of asd. But as she now copes with change, is sociable ie goes to college and copes with it, goes on a bus independently, gives some eye contact, then she doesn't fit criteria for dx. They said even though she is behind her peers and where they'd expect her to be at 17, we've helped her to mature, learn and understand over the years since she was young and she can now cope with things she couldn't previously. They suggest we continue to be supportive with her and that will help her further mature. If she has difficulties in the future with work etc, she can explain to employers that there's autism in the family, she herself has many autistic traits and she can't cope with some things so may need help/guidance. They also stressed an asd label (their words!) is not always helpful! It can be at school but certainly not in the working world!
I don't know what to think or do. Any thoughts on the above? TIA.
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