DS4 is 3. He is an ex premmie who has 2 different but significant medical conditions and also global development delay so he has the understanding and motor skills of an 18 month old and speech is even younger. He has on average 4 general anaesthetics a year, mostly lumbar punctures but sometimes other stuff too, like grommets. It's horrible watching him go through that and I'm usually on my own because DH has to look after the others.
He's had 11 GA's so far, got 12th in October. He's usually really poorly for about a month before each lumbar puncture, headache, sleeping lots, really clingy and hates any kind of noise. We usually have a couple of good months, a month when he is slowly getting worse and then a really bad month before the lumbar puncture and it starts all over again. Our lives seem to revolve round these cycles. We've missed weddings and other family events because they've been in the "bad month".
I'd love to meet other parents who understand. But DS4 is rare and I haven't met anyone similar to him. We go to some SN groups but most of the children there have conditions that are more common like autism, adhd, dyspraxia etc. He goes to an SN playgroup but there is nobody like him there either. I don't need respite or help with DLA forms but it would be so nice to talk to someone who understands what it's like.
When we are in the hospital we are surrounded by children with broken limbs, having their tonsils out etc, all one off things. Every time I leave the children's ward I can't breathe a sigh of relief because I know we'll be back soon.
The proffessionals are all very nice, especially the play therapists and his paediatrician. But they get to go home at the end of the day. Does anyone know how I can get in touch with other parents of children who are similar to DS.
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Here are some suggested organisations that offer expert advice on special needs.
MNHQ have commented on this thread
SN children
Where can I go to get support with my 3 year old who has SN/health issues?
13 replies
elliejjtiny · 08/08/2016 15:02
OP posts:
zzzzz ·
09/08/2016 15:17
This reply has been deleted
Message withdrawn at poster's request.
zzzzz ·
09/08/2016 17:30
This reply has been deleted
Message withdrawn at poster's request.
zzzzz ·
09/08/2016 18:22
This reply has been deleted
Message withdrawn at poster's request.
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.