My Y8 DD2 turns 13 next week and for the second time in two years has had no acceptances to her birthday party invites.
She's really upset, but to be fair she struggles with friendships because of her ASD and it may be that some of these girls hardly know her at all.
Last year she invited her whole class for a pool party at the end of term and no one turned up, so this year she just invited 6 others but all have declined. they were to have a swim, then pizza and Ice cream, then those who wanted to stay over could.
She was especially looking forward to the sleepover.
She doesn't seem to have any particular friends at all although her teachers describe her as friendly and kind and say she's never alone at school.
She had friends at primary school but secondary has just not been as inclusive. She's at a fairly academic Girls' school and her class doesn't sound hugely bitchy, compared to my eldest daughters class. DD1 has a bunch of friends who experience the usual teen dramas as far as I can tell.
If you have a daughter with ASD , who goes/went to a mainstream school, did it get easier as they got older?
How did they make friends? I do think that DD2 spends far too much time reading when she could make more of an effort to practice her social skills.
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