I have two DSes with ASD. Eldest had a hideous start in ms and was out of school for a year before he got a place in a fantastic special school. It's made all the difference to him.
DS2 is different in needs and character to DS1 - he's quiet and shuts down when he has sensory overloads, whereas DS1 is loud and violent when he's not coping. As a result, the school was very happy to get rid of him and the LA was left with no choice but to move him to ss.
DS2 will disappear in a mainstream setting. His nursery (who are 50/50 ms and sn kids) agree that he needs a small group setting to progress, and this is reflected in his paperwork. Developmentally he's around 16-22 months, still in nappies and has serious sensory issues. But he's quiet and compliant, he doesn't speak much at nursery (although he can) and is happy to be by himself. He will be utterly ignored in a class of 30 odd and he will never get out of the mainstream trap.
Currently going through the EHCP process - we have the meeting to draft the plan in July and then it will go to panel, and we are absolutely determined that he will go to ss.
BUT - the Ed Psych said that with lots of support, he could manage in ms. I am worried her report will reflect this, and she will be called by the LA in the event of a tribunal. I know the EP's report is the most important. Plus the ss is massively over subscribed as there is only that one plus an indie in our area, and all the places are already gone. My LA are very very pushy about getting kids into ms unless they really have no other choice and I suspect we will go to tribunal.
I need to go into the meeting with a plan to deflect this. I need to know what factors make the difference if you want an ss.
Please could anyone whose child went to an ss tell me how they did it? What do you think were the things that made your child ss material and the LA agree?
Thank you so much. I'm having horrendous sleepless nights over this. Finally clawing my way back from a severe bout of depression after what happened with DS1. NEED this to go right for DS2.
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Laura223939 · 07/06/2016 12:29
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