Ds is in year 6. On Thursday I got a call from school to say he'd been involved in an altercation with another boy at lunchtime. Other boy kicked ds, ds retaliated and hit other boy with a tennis racquet he was holding at the time. Both boys have been spoken to, ds is complaining of a sore back, do I want to collect him and take him to GP. I collected him more because I knew ds would be extremely upset internally by the incident. School said on the phone to get him checked as it would be a shame if he had to miss his school trip away (for 2 nights) the following day!
School said ds is complaining of a sore back, however they have viewed the CCTV and said ds seems to have been kicked in the front not the back. CCTV images are not crystal clear.
So, took ds to GP, he said his back and 1 side rib was sore when walking and when talking a deep breath in. GP said internal bruising, rib will be sore due to the force trauma.
Ds told me exactly what happened, why etc. He points to exactly where he was kicked and the exact rib that is sore. He went on the trip away on Friday with painkillers. Not one member of staff asked how he was, I did tell 2 members though at the end of conversations with them about medication etc.
Tried to see HT on Friday but she was busy with interviews all day. She rang me at the end of the school day. In a nutshell, she is adamant ds was kicked in the front so cannot understand why his back is sore, she says maybe he hit it on the wall. I asked if I could view CCTV but was told no, under data protection rules. Absolutely no. So even though I know who the other child involved is, school told me who it is, and even though my child was involved, I'm not allowed to view the footage. I can't believe that's right? HT said she didn't know what I wanted to happen from all this now. I said I want to view CCTV as ds is adamant where he was kicked yet school are saying he wasn't kicked in that place. I said I wanted other boys parents to be told of this incident - HT didn't know if they had been.
I doubt they have as I only got a phone call because ds complained of being sore. Otherwise, I wouldn't have been told about it!
The other boy is known for extreme behaviour and measures are in place to help him. His parents are on board with school and agree his behaviour is unacceptable. All are working together to help the boy.
Any thoughts/advice on whether I should be able to view the CCTV?
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