Ok, as many of you will know DS3 has an appointment at the paediatrician next week, as he has delays that are causing significant concern, here and at Nursery.
When we moved here, HV came as we requested, to discuss speech- this is 18 mnths ago, he's now 3.5. She said it was irrelevant at his age and she couldn't do anything.
Fast forward to the summer, no contact we summon HV as concerns mounting. She comes, does assessment, has concerns, will be back. Comes back, we're a bit edgy- got dx for eldest son that day. She says that HV 1 when we moved here was someone else, they mesed up not following ds3.
Next time she comes, we are delayed at a hospital appointmenta nd not there- she pops a card through with a date, on which we sit in, she doesn't turn up. We phone, we have our dates wrong apaprently- even though her card is in our hands. She won't come back, we're clearly too busy atm. We aslked to see her in the surgery as home visits traumatise ds1, no.
Phone call today- note one week before paed visit. Apaprently, she's just taken our case on (its the same on FFS!) after someone 'else' messed it up, she has a note from 18 months ago saying DS3 has notable delays even then (thanks for mentioning it love), what's happening. Dh is phsl at this point, as we know its the same HV and same excuse about 'someone else'. Passes phone to me in hysterica.
Can I come and do an assessment? Oh cannot come until two weeks time, never mind will be a good idea anyway. So sorry DS3 has been missed...
FFS! There's one small child caught up in all this, its been harder to get referrals, and she takes us as foolsd only bothering to cover up when DS3 is seeing a Paed! what about family X who ahve no idea of sn??? Doe their kids just fall by the wayside then? Is it routine just to leta lready Sn famillies struggle by with help withdrawn???
Ok Rant ovre. Phew
Either I psychically create these scenarios, or shite service follows me around like a baad smell. Coz this is getting beyond a joke now, what with school and stuff.
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PeachyClair · 15/01/2007 11:29
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