I'm so cross. I've got 5 dc with sn. DS2 gets a lot of pain, DS4 has had 10 operations. Dc's 1, 3 and 5 don't "suffer" as such but struggle with development delay, autism etc.
My sister is a teacher and she is always moaning about the children with sn in her class. My mum just agrees with everything she says. I know I shouldn't have done this but I was saying that I was worried about DS2's upcoming school trip as last time they didn't take his wheelchair and he ended up in a lot of pain afterwards. The mum of a child with autism was told that she would have to come on the trip if she wanted her dd to go.
My mum said it was fair enough and it was ok for children with sn to be excluded from trips because they can go to activities for dc with sn (we go to a group once a month for dc with sn and one for dc with autism). I'm so cross that my dc's grandmother thinks it's ok for them to not have their needs met on school trips. And that their lovely groups where they get a chance to feel like they aren't the only ones struggling are instead of being included on school trips. "It's not fair on the NT children" to only go on accessible school trips apparently. And we're lucky to get dla, family fund etc. Why don't these people get that my dc's and others like them struggle and suffer all the time and these extras don't come close to making them equal to nt dc. Argh.
Sorry for incoherent ramble. I have a 1 year old climbing on me.
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