DS1 (three) has a diagnosis of ASD. I'm pretty sure DS2 (two in March) is also autistic but haven't started trying to get a diagnosis yet.
DS2 is really big on routine. He has his favourite toy: a cuddly dog called Fergus who has to go with him to bed, when he gets up, when we go somewhere etc. Fine.
DS1 has a hoover obsession and has various Henry Hoover toys so I got DS2 a little cuddly one because he liked them. That soon became a second favourite toy and also comes along everywhere. It's only small so not too much of an issue (though, this does mean it fits through the bars of DS2's cot, which causes some problems at night). Okay.
Then, the elf I got both boys a Christmas book each on Christmas Eve. DS2 got Dear Santa. He loves it, which is great, but then he started insisting it went in his cot with him at night. That was okay. He didn't need to cuddle it or anything so it just sat in his cot near the bottom and wasn't an issue. Then, he started insisting this book came with him when he got up. As of yet, the book doesn't have to come in the car (though, he will ask to have it read to him several times through the day).
Last night I thought I'd try DS2 with a pillow because he doesn't sleep well and he quite likes to put things under his head so thought it was worth a go. My mum has these small pillows that came with sleeping bags she has so I tried one of those.
He didn't want the pillow under his head but he did want it in the cot next to him. Then, this morning...yeah, you can see where this is going. So, we have Fergus, Henry, the book and the pillow all through in the living room.
He doesn't do well with waking up and if he's refused one of these things we're not talking a little cry, we're talking an hour or more of screaming, scratching himself/others, writhing around the floor etc.
But, I feel this has the potential to snowball and where do we stop? We'll end up carrying round 20 toys, five books, a pillow, a blanket and a DVD or something if I'm not careful.
Anyone have any advice or can share their experience of similar?
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BigDamnHero · 06/01/2016 07:45
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