i have posted in special needs because i dont know if she has them or not... her behaviour at home is a madness... she shouts swears, hurts other people mainly my 8 year old son. others to but it seems to be him she gos for.. it gets a little better then it gets worse again. i told her tonight she is not to come out of her room. unless its to go to the bathroom. she came out at least 8 times i kept telling her to get into bed. and she just kept mouthing me off i was constantly up and down and my hips were really hurting. i think due to pregnancy. early in the evening she had been rude and aggressive i made her sit on the stairs for 20 mins. only time she was good and positive was when she was eating her dinner. anyway after going up the stairs the 8th time i lost it and ended up smacking her. but as i did she moved and i have caught the side of her face. she was crying for about 5 mins. i was ranting at her telling her i cant cope with her any more bla bla... then i left the room. i went back up 10 mins later and i said that she makes me sad and i dont like it when shes horrible to everyone. i said do you care when you upset people. she said she does not care and she likes being horrible...
during the holiday august sort of time i went to the doctors and told her some of the things she has done that worry me. i cant even remember them all now but one was that she had held a crusion over my babys face. i explained to her that her brother could die. she said she did not care. gp said at 5 shes still very young and does not understand the meaning of dying or how dangerous the crusion is. shes probably right. she did not seem worried about how she is at all. i dont get any bad reports from school.
i do want to get some sort of outside help but im (not) going to contact ss. or the school. if the school become involved if i can get some sort of out side help thats fine. as she is under their care during school time. but i do not trust the school. and i do have good reason not to. so for now at least i want to keep them out of it.
we do need some sort of help i just dont know how to get it if gp is not worried says shes little and will grow out of it.
i might end up adding things as i go on this thread as im stressed and it all feels very mixed up.
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i just smacked my 5 year old :(
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