Hi I'm after a bit of advice please - I think there is a strong possibility my DS (8) has some for of Aspergers, I've always thought he behaved in ways that were not 'normal' but as he has grown older more things worry me. I've looked at symptoms of Aspergers on the national autism website and many of them describe things my DS does. He is also very, very clumsy so I suspect possible some dyspraxia symptoms. However he is doing extremely well at school - to the point that his teacher gave him the report that most parents dream about - he is intelligent, kind, helpful, friends with everyone, doesn't show off etc, etc. So his teacher clearly doesn't think there is a problem. My thoughts are that he is intelligent and so does a good job at hiding some of the things he knows may not be 'normal' also he has a very small core group of friends, he is on appearances friends with everyone, but get him out of the school situation, where there is control, rules and boundaries and he cannot get along, I just know as soon as he is put in with a group of 'friends' he struggles, bosses people about and gets angry/upset and can't cope. He also spends lots of breaktimes 'helping' the teacher which I think is his way of hiding the fact he doesn't know what to do with himself at playtime.
Anyway, my main concern is that his lack of social skills etc will show more and more as time goes on and others gain better social skills and he will suffer. Plus he can be incredibly hard work at home so some support with that would be nice! Do you think the best thing to do is discuss my concerns privately with his teacher and see if she notices anything? Or should I leave all alone and put it down to me being and over worrying mum?
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