DH moved out in April. I really didn't think we'd be getting back together so applied for income support etc. (Things have improved greatly however and he is moving back in next month when he's back from working away.)
Anyway in July DS saw the paed and she quickly asked me if 'stepdad was still around'. I was embarrassed to admit what had happened to said yes, no problems there. She wrote on her report that DS still lives with mum, mum's partner and two half sisters.
I've photocopied and sent this report with my DLA form!
I have anxiety anyway but now I'm really worried that I will be accused of benefit fraud. DH has NOT been living with me - I pay all the bills, he has changed all addresses to his mum's where he now lives. He isn't here that much and usually gets a taxi back rather than stay over as all of his things are at his mum's. DS even said during his ADOS "My daddy lives at his mum's house now" (but I doubt the paed remembers that!).
Obviously as soon as he moves back in I will be cancelling my income support claim and ringing DLA to tell them I'm no longer on it.
Please tell me I'm worrying unnecessarily? I feel sick.
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