DS (11, AS) was weaned as normal as a baby, then at 18 months old suddenly withdrew from eating lots and lots of foods that he had previously eaten happily. We have muddled through the pre-school / primary years whilst trying all sorts of tactics to broaden his palate, but have expended so much energy on helping him with social skills, school work, getting a statement that we haven't really put all our efforts into this. It's come to a head now, he has started at a special school for Year 7 and school dinners are compulsory, they have a great chef, and at least 4 choices every day, but there is virtually nothing there he will eat most days. Same when we eat out, if we go to a pub there are likely to be one or two at the most menu choices for him, normal cafes are a total non-starter, our only options are pasta, pizza and Indian and the rest of us are heartily sick of it. He won't eat any sort of plain or bland, normal "British" meals, roasts, stews, and meat and two veg type meals or potatoes in any shape or form. He's not malnourished as he eats a reasonable balance of food groups, but chooses from such a restricted range.
I'm at my wits end quite frankly. I just want to be able to cook normal every day meals and have most people eat them most of the time. I've posted on fussy eating threads before and been told I should just put down a meal in front of him and if he's hungry enough he'll eat it, oh no he won't, he'd rather starve and is a skinny (10th centile) thing. Also been accused of stealth boasting because the few things he will eat include spicy foods and couscous, I know it makes me sound like one of "those" mums, but life would be so much easier if we could occasionally go to MacDonalds or have fish and chips.
I suggested to him tonight that we try and get a referral to a dietitican and he hit the roof, he is very defensive about it all. Has anyone got any suggestions, or found a dietician useful for these sorts of issues? I am going to talk to the school again, but I feel I really need to try and help him more at home.
Here are some suggested organisations that offer expert advice on special needs.
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ASD and food issues, getting to end of tether
AsTimeGoesBy · 18/09/2015 18:50
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