DD is 5, diagnosed with SPD with many traits of autism (as yet not assessed for ASD) Mornings are awful. Her sleep isn't good, so she wakes grumpy. She shouts at us and her sister as soon as she opens her eyes. I have tried being kind and understanding but she just shouts at me. If I am firm and say you'll have to go in your room as you can't shout at us before we are even awake it ends in screaming, banging and tantrums at 5am and I'm aware of neighbours. Nothing seems to get through. I feel utterly defeated this morning, she has shouted at us, been nothing but mean to her sister, we've had the usual morning battle re: getting dressed and putting sun cream on. Thing is, she copes really well as school so I think she gets it all out at home which makes it worse. Any advice or tips? I'm trying a reward chart (very basic) but she isn't interested, and if she genuinely can't help her behaviour it won't work anyway will it? I'm so sick of shouting and arguments (from her) and me having to be reasoned and calm. When she is lovely she is really lovely, but it feels we rarely see this at the moment. Any advice would really be appreciated. I feel really tearful this morning as I'm really trying and not getting anywhere it feels.
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Mayor · 03/07/2015 08:30
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