DS1 is 7, P3. At parents evening (October) his teacher mentioned he was very difficult to asses, she couldn't give us an idea of what level he was working at, then mentioned support for learning. All of which we nodded along too, having no concerns overall.
Fast forward to now DS is receiving one morning a week one to one. I contacted the school to see if we could offer any further help at home and after eventually speaking with SFL teacher it clicked this was not to help him with maths/English but socially.
He has good understanding/communication on a one to one but loses any interest in a group setting or when working in pairs. I've actually noticed this at swimming lessons, he pays no attention whatsoever, eyes wandering everywhere and generally just doing his own thing.
How have I missed all this? He is a lovely natured boy, helps out at home, does his homework, plays with his siblings, can work a room in conversation, great eye contact. The SFL has no concerns re anxiety.
At school he hasn't really made friends but honestly doesn't seem bothered by this. He has a few habits like hand wringing and needing to always swing something in his hand. I understand it's causing issues at school but have no idea what path they are leading us down. Teacher has already mentioned looking for more input other than SFL
Thanks for reading this far.
bothered by this, his peers just aren't into the same things as him.
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Dontstepinthecowpat · 08/06/2015 17:32
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