Ds wrote a note
"My brother is annoying. I feel like smashing something, like a glass or the TV. I'm worried about homework, although mum says I don't have to. I'm really not looking forward to my birthday cos I have no friends to invite. The people who I want to invite can go jump off a bridge for all I care. They are complete idiots and I'm going to ask mum if I can have a party by myself'
It seems to me that Ds really wants to have friends, but just cannot manage it and this makes him very angry with himself (his brother also bears the brunt of it)
We have tried clubs, play dates etc but Ds really cannot tolerate being around others for longer than about 5 minutes.
Ds does attend an after school club once a week. But others tend to not like being around Ds either and he is often 'picked on'. Yesterday for example in after school club he was bitten.
General others seem to take a dislike to Ds in and out of school. Even at the park other children tell him to go away etc.
Where do I start on helping Ds socially?
Here are some suggested organisations that offer expert advice on special needs.
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Ds's note, how do I help?
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