My children are on a Team Around the Child at the moment due to my having left an abusive marriage.
One of the hub workers has suggested my 5yo should be evaluated for autism. Her school have not raised concerns in this regard.
I know quite a lot about autism and other SEN issues as I work in that field. But it's always different when it's your own child.
I think her dad is quite possibly on the spectrum but whether he'd meet diagnostic criteria is another matter.
She shows some traits that I suppose could be seen as being ASD. But she also shows a lot of traits that contra-indicate it. My gut feeling is she wouldn't meet diagnostic criteria and it isn't a route I want to go down right now. She is doing fine in school, she is settling after the separation and I hope any difficulties she is having may dissipate with time.
However part of me feels guilty for not rushing her for assessment and I wanted to ask your opinions.
Autistic-type behaviours she does show: she has immature social skills and finds it hard to initiate interactions appropriately; she doesn't seem to get personal space and will go right up to people; she has poor impulse control which means she still tantrums sometimes; she covers her ears if her sister cries; she is always on the go/fidgety; she understands social rules but doesn't seem to be able to put the rules into practice very often.
Behaviours she shows that contra-indicate this: she is extremely, extremely empathetic and caring; she always wants to help others, often at her own expense; she has never had any delay to her speech; loud noises other than her sister crying don't bother her; she makes appropriate eye contact; change doesn't bother her at all; she has no obsessive behaviours.
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kateinoxford · 16/01/2015 14:39
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