DS - 5 yrs, HFA/Aspergers – is in Y1 and goes to mainstream mornings only as he finds school so overwhelming (has SNA in the morning, no funds for more hours which he cannot manage without; statement process is under way). The school arranged for him to attend the county Primary Education Service unit for a term where they would supposedly help him learn some social skills in a small group as a stepping stone to more hours in school. Three afternoons a week. Complete disaster! I was told they would help him and I feel so let down. Today I was told he had been shouting, screaming and crying most of the session and throwing chairs (he’s never been so aggressive before and in school he’s doing well with his assistant).
They have a policy of not phoning parents so they kept him shut in the ‘quiet room’ (a tiny cupboard-like room) screaming and crying until the end of the afternoon session. He thinks he was ‘locked up’ and he’s very disturbed by the whole thing. Obviously they have to protect the other children but how can things of got this bad? – no one else has ever had such trouble managing him and he has never been so aggressive before. Everyone else who has ever worked with him has found a way to help him relax and calm down before things got this bad – but not them!
When I was collecting him they told me he had been very ‘bad’ and a ‘nightmare’ in front of him, and that it had been very distressing for them. Since he started last week he has regressed so much in terms of behaviour, communication, cooperation, stress levels. He was in a good place when he started and now he's having lots of meltdowns and he's anxious and unhappy again. I was wondering if anyone had experience with similar units?
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Corrimony · 21/11/2014 00:16
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