I have an 8 year old boy born at 33 weeks with cleft lip and palate. Was a very sicky baby. Failure to thrive, aspirated thin liquids, constantly on antibiotics due to chest infections. Diagnosed with asthma. As he turned to toddler age he had strange behaviours. Would get agitated if anything out of ordinary happened even his birthday refused to leave his room and when brought to parks or play areas would not leave my side to play even though his big brothers were with him. Had and still has sensory issues. Hated and still does walking anywhere more than what is normal. Would sit and refuse to move. Fears were a big thing. Refused to play outside over fears of dog poop spiders flies. If in any play setting would sit on floor head down playing with fingers. Hated when people even mum and my siblings would come to house. He started nursery at mainstream school. Would sit under table hiding in cloakroom. He did come round but wouldn't play with the other children. His teacher said he had no sense of danger when outside and would scream out strange noises which he still does. He didn't speak until very late and is still very delayed. Other people can't understand him. He went into mainstream p1. He began to get used to being around people but was not learning in school due to lack of attention span and would be found gazing out windows or playing with fingers. He would still shout out strange noises such as a high pitched scream. He was then sent to a special needs school where he can move at his own pace. He's in p3 now and is still unable to write his own name. He still poos and wees himself and yesterday pooed in my dining room. He smears poo on walls on himself and around his bed. He's fine with people but will really act up if there are a lot of people. He spat in a lady's face last week who we did not know. He kicks bites throws things at people without a care. He says he Hates people. He can't sit in car at peace. He will be standing on his head, lick windows and seats. Chews holes in jumpers. Can't concentrate on 2 things at once. It's hard to put into words his behaviours but I'm just so worried and nobody is doing anything he likes to compare everything 'which ones better' 'which ones stronger' he can't sleep at night and his behaviour is so unpredictable. Sorry this is so long. I'm just so frustrated with docs.
Here are some suggested organisations that offer expert advice on special needs.
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