I know something is wrong with my 15 month old but I don't know what if is. The not knowing, and other people telling me not to worry, is driving me mad.
His eye contact is appalling, he doesn't really attempt to communicate with me or anyone else, he doesn't seem to understand anything that it said to him and I'm quite sure that he doesn't know I'm his mum. How can that not be anything to worry about?!
This morning I sat in front of his high chair & said hello to him. He turned his head away so he didn't have to look at me. When I persisted, he put his arm in front of his eyes to block me.
On the plus side, he is very happy and smiley. He crawls around picking things up and examining them and he seems to enjoy being around his siblings. He likes people who are wearing glasses or hats. He comes at sits beside me at times. When he hears music on the radio he tries to 'sing' along.
I don't think he dislikes people, he just doesn't like eye contact and he prefers to do his own thing. I wish he would say mummy though, just once! Or look at me when someone says "Where's mummy?", or come to me when he is hurt or scared of something.
I know we have to wait and see because of his age. He is waiting for a paediatrician apt. He seems to have good days & bad days. We also cut dairy out of his diet recently and he seemed to improve so much - he responded to his name for the first time ever & he actually pointed a few times. We reintroduced some dairy, just to see if it was a coincidence, and he has just 'switched off' completely again. I am sending off a urine sample to see if he should have dairy or gluten removed from his diet.
I don't even know why I am posting really, it's just that everyone i mention this to in RL tries to play it down & make me feel better. That doesn't help though, I can still see what is front of me! My DH admitted this morning that he knows something is wrong with DS. That has just finished me off a bit really, even though I already knew. Before, DH kept saying he was just a bit behind & would catch up soon.
I feel like if I just knew what the future holds then I could prepare myself and cope. As it is, I go from thinking "He is severely autistic" to "It's just a language delay" to "Actually, he is fine!" and then back again. Sometimes I think I am imaging the whole thing & other times I think it is just blindingly obvious & am amazed that not everyone sees it.
Anyway, thanks to anyone who read this [snile]
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GrufalloToes · 10/03/2014 10:52
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