Its incredibly early days. Shes ten, and the most wonderful bright, sweet little girl. Shes also always been quite different. I dont even really know how to put all this down, and i have begun to write this post so many times and deleted for fear of offending, or getting it wrong. I dont know.
Ill start at the start, shes super bright and always has been. Read very early, but slow to mobilise. Ridiculously clever with a vocabularly far beyond her years. That continues to this day. School has been crap for her socially from day one. She doesnt get other peoples emotions and feelings, and now shes at the prepubescent stage, where all the girls are a bit vipery, its awful. Shes not 'cool', she doesnt 'get' it. Shes quite socially excluded with girls, but the boys are soft with her and she spends her time mainly with them. Her teachers have always said 'maybe' when i have raised the possibility of being on the spectrum, but its become a bit undeniable now. Other things that are of concern to me now:
She has developed a habitual cough. Shes not poorly, it happens when she is socially uncomfortable or tired.
She struggles to mainly any eye contact, exspecially in diffucult conversations.
Forgets or loses things daily.
Has also developed a funny habit of bending her legs upward, even in inappropriate situations
Even more immersed in her world of books and reading. Currently obsessed with jacqueline wilsons.
Tearful meltdowns when she feels something is 'unjust'
New habits of mirroring the other girls, almost like she is learning how they behave and acting that out
School are now increasingly concerned as she is dropping fast academically. They have put some support in place, and i have a meeting on tuesday to talk about my concerns with the support lady.
I have always had a great issue with school refusing to 'push' her academically... Its always been intrinsic with the social problems, ie, if she works on her emotional and social problems we will give her harder work. Sadly its just meant that she has fallen further behind as shes bored and lacking in concentration.
The good stuff! She is learning some emotionally literacy from her two little brothers, like the hugging and kissing and i love yous. Her baby brother adores her, and i can see she is learning so much from him. Other good stuff.... She adores drama, singing and dance. Shes in a smashing group and is taking lead roles proud face she is also very crafty/creative and we have started having our craft times, where i have found she is a little happier to open up when she has a distraction in her hands.
Im not quite sure the point of my post in some ways. I think what i am asking is a) how does this seem to you, and b) what should i be raising on tuesday?
Shes in year 5 now so i want to try and have something in place for senior school.
Here are some suggested organisations that offer expert advice on special needs.
SN children
I think my little girl has aspergers...
OhBabyLilyMunster · 08/03/2014 11:54
This reply has been deleted
Message withdrawn at poster's request.
This reply has been deleted
Message withdrawn at poster's request.
This reply has been deleted
Message withdrawn at poster's request.
This reply has been deleted
Message withdrawn at poster's request.
This reply has been deleted
Message withdrawn at poster's request.
Don’t want to miss threads like this?
Weekly
Sign up to our weekly round up and get all the best threads sent straight to your inbox!
Log in to update your newsletter preferences.
You've subscribed!
This reply has been deleted
Message withdrawn at poster's request.
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.